At first impression I appear a soft butch. Pants in one form or another, shirts with little frou-frou, low or no-heeled shoes, no makeup, polish, jewelry, or hairspray. But give me an opportunity to dress up and I'll put on the duds. Tonight I'm dressing up for a Halloween party and as part of the get up I treated myself to a manicure. It took me almost 20 minutes to finally get out of the shop when it was done because every time I'd try to do something I'd screw up the polish. You can't take me anywhere.